In the context of criminal reconciliation,the subjectivity of parties has the connotation of negotiability and fairness.The compensating consultation between the parties need to reflect independently the interests of the arrangements,and to achieve the interests of the parties take into account.In this regard,the spirit of damages,damage to the civil liability rules of satisfaction,and alternative compensation or performance methods need to be fully applicable.From the overall effect of the rules,it is necessary to establish a rational damages rules which must respect for the independent consultation and protect the victims can receive reasonable compensation.